|Genre||Novel (289 pp.)|
|Keywords||Body Self-Image, Cancer, Caregivers, Death and Dying, Doctor-Patient Relationship, Empathy, Euthanasia, Family Relationships, Patient Experience, Power Relations, Psychiatry, Suffering, Suicide|
This is a truly beautiful novel; its many stories remain with the reader for a long time. It is the semi-autobiographical story of the myriad of issues which are manifest as one family deals with the terminal illness of the mother from cancer.
A daughter, who has never considered herself close to her mother, is forced by her father to leave her job as a journalist in New York, to come home and become the primary caregiver. Over a period of several months the mother has chemotherapy and eventually gives up to the slow deterioration of the disease. During this time the mother and daughter rebuild a relationship and come to have mutual respect for each other. One poignant aspect of the relationship is their establishment of "The Gulden Girls Book and Cook Club" as they read old classics together and the mother teaches the daughter the cooking secrets which she has cherished.
The father, a college professor and former mentor of the daughter, absents himself from the home as much as possible, unable to deal with the issues. The female oncologist is very helpful and understanding with both the patient and the daughter. A wonderful hospice nurse gives welcome support. The question of assisted suicide becomes an issue after the mother's death; the daughter is arrested. There is a surprise ending which should not be revealed here, but offers a good forum for discussion.
|Commentary||Anna Quindlen writes masterfully, exploring the ambiguities that make up marriage, character, family and fate. The book contains profound insights into the complex lives of the women and men in this family, and in the community in which they live. The book could be the entire text for a Literature and Medicine course.|
|Place Published||New York|
|Miscellaneous||Anna Quindlen, a former newspaper columnist, won a Pulitzer Prize for her New York Times column, "Public and Private."|
|Annotated by||Sirridge, Marjorie S.|
|Date of Entry||07/24/97|