Literature Annotations


Olds, Sharon
Beyond Harm


On-Line Text
Genre Poem
KeywordsChild Abuse, Death and Dying, Family Relationships, Father-Daughter Relationship, Illness and the Family, Love, Suffering, Survival, Time
Summary

The poem expresses the devastation that parental abusiveness inflicts and the rationalizations its recipients adopt for emotional survival. In a perverse way, childhood mistreatment by her father meant the narrator was being given his attention. His death has guaranteed that the loving relationship which she had with him at the end of his life is safe from harm. So precarious did she believe his love to be that she feared even now to offend him: "he could / re-skew my life."

 

CommentaryThis is from the collection of poems written by Olds about a father's terminal illness and death, and retrospectively, about a life together (see also in this database The Waiting, The Pulling, The Dead Body, Waste Sonata).
SourceThe Father
PublisherKnopf
Edition1992
Place PublishedNew York
Annotated by Aull, Felice
Date of Entry 02/09/94
Last Revised 02/21/08