Summary

A powerful lament over a father’s wasted life, and the "purgatory" of living in a household dominated by alcoholism and marital discord. Strong and graphic language weaves a complex web of conflicting emotions: hatred and self-hatred, scorn and pity, condemnation and forgiveness.

Commentary

This is from the collection of poems written by Olds about a father’s terminal illness and death, and retrospectively, about a life together (see also in this database The Waiting, The Pulling, The Dead Body, Beyond Harm).

Primary Source

The Father

Publisher

Knopf

Place Published

New York

Edition

1992