Literature Annotations


Lee, Li-Young
The Gift


On-Line Text
Genre Poem
KeywordsChildren, Family Relationships, Father-Son Relationship, Love, Ordinary Life
Summary

The narrator, painlessly removing a splinter from his wife's hand, recalls the scene when he was a boy of seven and his father removed an "iron sliver" splinter from his palm. The father had skillfully distracted his son by telling a story in a voice reassuring and low: "a well / of dark water, a prayer."

Darker themes are alluded to--his father's hands were used not just to give love and protection, but also discipline. The narrator notes that as a boy he did not over-dramatize the scene. Rather, something precious was exchanged between father and son. In fact, it could have appeared to the onlooker that the father was "planting" (rather than removing) "a silver tear, a tiny flame" on his son's palm. The poem ends with the boy holding the removed splinter and kissing his father.

Commentary

Like many of Lee's poems in Rose such as Persimmons (see this database), this poem tenderly recreates the complex relationship between father and son. An ordinary moment, the removal of a splinter, is used to exemplify the give and take, the wonder and harshness of that relationship.

SourceRose
PublisherBOA Editions
Edition1986
Place PublishedRochester, N.Y.
Annotated by Shafer, Audrey
Date of Entry 04/07/99
Last Revised 01/09/07